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9 WORDS WOMEN USE
This great email was sent to me and I thought I would share it with all of you.
Communication is the biggest downfall of most relationships. We talk at each other, we talk about what someone should do, we talk about each other but seldom do we honestly talk to each other.

Ladies and Gentlemen, we definitely communicate differently. Women like to talk and want details where men state their position and more on.

Ladies, men are not mind readers and sometime they are not the brightest crayon in the crayola box. We have to say exactly what we mean and do not use these nine words. They just don’t get it.

Now , knowing that gentlemen read these nine words, study them and act accordingly.
Good luck and remember if no one told they love you today I do!
Next week what nine words men use…….

(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says: 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' ... that will bring on a 'whatever').

(8) Whatever: Is a women's way of saying SCREW YOU!

(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

Things Men Say: How We Intrepret Them

Last week we discussed the nine words women use and their meanings.

So, this week we are spotlighting our men.

Remember that communication is the key to a healthy relationship. Everybody listen with your ears and not with your mouths. Think about what you say because once you speak it ..,it is out there.

Just some food for thought. Remember if no one told you they love you today I do.

Always, Justine

· In a minute - translated, which means I don’t really what to do it

· My phone dropped the call - translated, he pushed ignore

· I got make a run - run where? (where is this mysterious place )

· But you said... - translated, selective amnesia

· I’ll be right back - translated, two hours later

· Just give me five minutes - translated one hour or more

· You called? see I don’t have a missed call from you - translated, he just plain ignore the call, translated ( Verizon, Sprint, ATT have major technical issues)

· I know where I am going - translated, scared to ask for directions

· I have got some business to take care of - (what business) translated I want to hang out

· You women worry too much! - translated, not important

· Women Drivers are the worst - translated, you can’t drive

· Women should not be on the golf course - translated, you are holding up play

· I got you, (got me for what) - translated, I don’t want to do it now (go back to one)

· My supervisor asked me to stay late - translated I want to hang out

· You were talking to me - translated, you weren’t listening

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